一段感情，你越投入，也就被伤害的越深，我一直知道这个道理。很奇怪的，我身边的朋友也跟我一样，互相告诉对方不要对感情过分投入，但是我们每个人都是在感情中盲目的小女人。在痛苦的时候，我们互相支持，在夜深人静的时候，只能告诉自己，其实也是活该，明知道不值得，却像飞蛾扑火一样，奢望可以那个你为他付出的人珍惜你的存在。而往往我们忽略了，人类有着自私的基因。

当你回忆某段感情的时候，你会微笑，这份感情就是值得。可是当你不懂得怎么微笑的时候，已经被伤害的遍体鳞伤。连望着火车外的风景，听着好像在诉说着自己的故事的苦涩情歌时，眼泪不知不觉地流下来。然后你自问，自己做错了什么？你留下来的眼泪，谁会去珍惜？你告诉自己要坚强，可是你为了什么要坚强？

有人说，长大之后，你就不会再去想象童话般的爱情，而会去追求非常现实的问题。那我想我是还没长大吧，虽然我从来没有想过要去追求童话般的爱情。心理测验中二选一，你选择情人的条件，有钱或者是你的知心朋友，我从来都是选择知心朋友。这很不现实吧，谁不想无忧无虑的过生活？但是拿着名牌包包，光鲜的外表下，你真的享受生活吗？

或许现实生活中，已经没有爱情。因为连很简单的用真心待人，珍惜别人付出的，有些人还是做不到。

或许爱情还是存在在某个地方，因为还是有人用心聆听，用信任来建筑感情。

最后还是用Iris在'The Holiday'里面的经典台词为我的感情画下句点，我很羡慕她，因为她最后还是找到了真爱。这虽然很Hollywood，但是我还是相信生活，相信现实背后的那一点纯真。

"I understand feeling as small and as insignificant as humanly possible. And how it can actually ache in places you didn't know you had inside you. And it doesn't matter how many new haircuts you get, or gyms you join, or how many glasses of chardonnay you drink with your girlfriends... you still go to bed every night going over every detail and wonder what you did wrong or how you could have misunderstood. And how in the hell for that brief moment you could think that you were that happy. And sometimes you can even convince yourself that he'll see the light and show up at your door. And after all that, however long all that may be, you'll go somewhere new. And you'll meet people who make you feel worthwhile again. And little pieces of your soul will finally come back. And all that fuzzy stuff, those years of your life that you wasted, that will eventually begin to fade. " - Iris in 'The Holiday'